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CLM's Scammer Prison - We strive to hunt Scammers down tirelessly! While most Dating Sites are busy scamming their own members with fake members and fake messages and others let Scammers roam free, we never post fake members, and we hunt Scammers down tirelessy!

Scamfree Dating for Men Seeking Sincere Long Term Relationships


This is one of hundreds of success stories. is the trusted Chinese dating site specifically for international men who are honestly looking to develop a relationship that embodies friendship, romance, love, life partnership and perhaps marriage with women of China or of Chinese heritage.  If you’re looking for some other kind of dating, then we are not for you and you are not for us.  You can stop reading here.  
But if that does describe you, then you’ve just landed on the best website on the internet for you, bar none.  CLM is the one dating site in the Chinese relationship niche that sincerely looks out for its members, and strives to assist them in succeeding to not only find a true love, but in making it last forever.
We care a lot about our Chinese women members. We protect them from scammers, we try to educate them on what to look for in a good western man, and what not to expect, and we provide a great forum for all members to communicate with each other and help each other succeed. Unlike most sites, that treat their women “members” as if they are a product, we think of them as our friends and partners, our dating community members. When you join that’s also how we'll treat you!
Because of this, our ladies love us, and we attract the very best women from China and around the world. Women who are educated, beautiful, talented, vibrant, exciting, earthy, open minded and loving. And they are all interested in meeting a good western man, a man just like you.

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Why Date a Chinese Woman?

Chinese Women are Vibrant, Fun, Mysterious, Beautiful and Intoxicating! Why not date them?

A China girl is generally physically attractive, usually slender, often petite, rarely obese, and tends towards being graceful and delicate. She tends to take care of herself, her dress and her appearance! These ladies are fun to be with – they take great joy out of small things, and they love to laugh. Chinese girls are caring, polite and usually very gentle and charming. 
In China, love and partnership are very important and once a sincere woman commits to her lifemate or partner she really does so for life. A female friend, lover or lifemate will be there through thick and thin. These ladies are incredibly loyal, especially if that loyalty is reciprocated. And the importance of friendship and family is paramount to them. 
A modern China woman adapts well to new cultures, surroundings and people. Your new lady will fit right in with your family and friends and your home country. These women actually appreciate Western Men (unlike most Western Women) because they appreciate that we treat them with politeness and respect. Modern Chinese women love that they get to be equal partners in their relationships with Western men, and they make great friends, lovers or life-mates if given the opportunity. 

Don’t misunderstand, these ladies are not pushovers. They’re not the mild, meek and submissive types that many sites, especially the scams sites, will try to pretend they are. They fully expect to be treated as equals, and treated with respect. But they also expect to play the role of the woman, and they want you to be the man. Read more about these great Chinese women here…
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Commitment to Honesty and Integrity

Seal of International Alliance for Honest Dating SitesIn an effort to try to bring honesty and integrity to the online dating industry at large, something that is sadly lacking to a large degree, has joined forces with two other sites that are also well respected for their open and transparent dealings with their members and together have founded the International Alliance for Honest Dating sites.
There are countless dating sites that mislead their members as we've described above.  We are determined to see those sites removed from the internet.  This has to do with our belief that people should be able to trust online businesses to be open and honest just as much as they trust the local businesses in their neighbourhood.  
The goal of the Alliance is to educate the public on these fraudulent sites and their illegal activities, on how to avoid being sucked in by such sites and to bring together all honest sites under a standard code of behavior that will guarantee that all members of these sites are safe and secure in their search for a real and lasting long term relationship, partnership or marriage. 
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​To Find True Love, Men Truly Trust CLM Online Chinese Dating

Any man can benefit from finding a great Chinese woman.Of course, if you are still here reading this then you are obviously interested in finding your China love match.  But who are you, and what brought you here seeking love with a Chinese lady? 
A lot of men come to CLM just looking for an honest site. They’ve already tried dating on other Asian or Chinese sites, but discovered too late they were on one of the many dating scam sites. Sites like, (,,, and countless others that post many fake women members, send out countless fake messages and chat invitations by these fake members, and charge excessive fees to read each message, to reply to each message, for each moment chatting with a paid employee or agent, and multiply the charges by forcing the member to pay for translation for all the fakery. If you’re one of them then you are going to think you've gone to heaven here on You can read more about the Chinese dating scam sites here…
Most men who come to any Chinese dating site are coming out of a couple, or more, bad relationships with women in their own country. After a bad divorce or two, and after endlessly being told in the media how horrible men are and how privileged women are, they start looking into other cultures where the ladies have not succumbed to an attitude of entitlement. They’re looking for life partners who are independent, but are still women, and not trying to out-man them. If that’s you, you’re going to be happy joining the CLM dating community too.
Finally, some of you are simply men who have always been attracted to women of China, but had no idea how to go about finding and meeting them, let alone dating and developing a relationship with some of them. Well, you’ve discovered how to now. Our ladies are real, they’re beautiful (each in their own way) and they’re looking to meet a man like you. Welcome aboard!  
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Extraordinary Online Dating Service & Safety

At CLM we guard your heart and your wallet!

Internet dating, for people seeking true friendship, love and long-term relationships, should be 3 things: sincere; fun, and safe. Here at CLM we strive to make it all three. 
1. First, we endeavor to ensure that we are attracting members who are genuinely interested in real & sincere relationships. Our member promotions specify that our members are seeking only sincere Chinese dating with members truly seeking romance, love and long term relationships. We care about our members' hearts and their pride and we want your experience here to be positive and real; a CLM Member really is a member, not just a number.
2. We strive to make your online dating fun. Our eMagazine, Blogs and Forum are entertaining, enlightening and educational on how to be safe, secure, sparkling and successful while dating with Chinese and Asian women.  We constantly upgrade CLM by adding new features that we think will be beneficial or that have been specifically recommended or requested by our members. When our members speak, we listen. That's why we are trusted more than any other Chinese dating site.
3.  We are the home and only home of Scammer Prison, and we’ve got your back! We constantly police the website for people who are here for the wrong reasons. We reject many registrants every day, who seem fake, insincere or to be probable Scammers. We also encourage our members to report anyone they suspect and we investigate and take action when they do. We provide detailed tips on how to practice Online Chinese Dating Safety. Our goal is to be a Scammer Free website. 
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Outstanding Features and Functions
CLM offers a number of features that are unique, not only to Asian and Chinese dating but to online dating generally. They’ve already been mentioned but are worth mentioning again.
Scammer Prison – scammers are hunted down like real criminals on CLM and placed in Scammer Prison when caught, so they are highly visible to all members.
Scammer Notices – when a scammer is caught, everyone who has had any contact with him or her is sent an email alert to cease communications.
The Blogs – our blogs are by real members, some of whom are now married to CLM members, and they provide real advice to others about the process of online dating and how to succeed.
The Forum – our forum is an open line of communication between all members, allowing everyone to help each other understand the cultural differences and overcome them to find true love.
Multiple variations of Browsing and Searching that leave no options unturned in your quest to find your perfect China love match.
Video/Audio Chat combined with Instant Messaging that includes Instant Translation, an incredible tool for furthering relationships across language barriers. Regular messaging also includes instant translation.
Unrestricted Communication between members, so long as one has upgraded to Gold. Exchanging private contact details is allowed without question.

And many more features.
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