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Of course, like all serious dating sites we have our success stories, and here are some of them. These Western men came to CLM to seek, find, meet, befriend, chat with, and love a beautiful Chinese women, and succeeded. So can you.
Kahnsfury and Windyhuang Form a Perfect Match

A great Chinese wedding for a great couple.Kahnsfury is otherwise known as Neil Yaun, one of CLM's original bloggers. Neil was living a life in the USA that wasn't fulfilling for him, and was not a happy man. But rather than just feeling sorry for himself and giving in, he envisioned a better life for himself in China. So he grabbed the bull by the horns and wrestled it to the ground, and came to China to start anew.  Two years later he is living his dream, and a lot of that is clearly thanks to a great partner in WIndyhuang, who has been supporting him from the day he arrived. These are two great people who have now formed a great marriage. May their happiness be eternal.

Neil's Story

When I first met Windy on CLM I knew there was something special about her.  She always knew how to brighten my day after a horrible night at work.  It seemed as if we had known each other our whole lives, not just the weeks and months before I met her in person.  Talking to her was such a balm for my life at that time because I’d been so lonely for so long I’d almost forgotten how it felt to have an emotional connection to someone.  The ability to talk to her about anything felt amazing and when it came time for me to go to China I knew she had to be the first person I would meet.

I remember the advice from CLM by heart on how to succeed at finding love in China and I followed that advice to the letter.  Windy and I met online via the awesome kiss feature.  It’s especially helpful tool for introverted and shy people who have a hard time breaking the ice.  After we exchanged kisses we talked for a few weeks and then took the next level by having a video chat.  It was great to hear her voice for the first time and to hear her wonderful laugh.  It brought us closer together and made the distance between us insignificant.

When the day came and I met Windy I was blown away by how beautiful she was.  The pictures and video chat did not do her justice and for the first time since we’d met online I was struck speechless.  We seemed to compliment the other completely.  Yin and Yang personified the glowing white heat of passion of me brought into balance with her cool reasoned logic.  It opened a whole new world for both of us to explore together.

Since that day we have share so many first times in our relationship.  From her first experience with a fork and knife to my adventures in Chinese cuisine and even though those things sound unimportant, I’ve realized that it’s those small things in relationships that truly make life special.  The way she takes my hand when we watch a movie to the hug and kiss I give her when she gets home from work.  These small acts of affection are the things I’d been missing in my life for years.

When we got married I gained a new family and even though I was extremely nervous about the idea of Chinese family and the problems that can affect a relationship.  They accepted me with open arms and feed me till I can’t eat anymore.  On the day of our wedding all of Windy’s family brought their little babies up to me so they could meet their new “shushu.”  I had a warm fuzzy feeling inside when I saw these beautiful children and realized the true power of family.

So now we are a family and someday we will have our own babies to show off to their aunts and uncles and when that day comes I get to experience the next joy that comes with being called husband and that is being called father.

Windy's Story


Windy's family welcomes Neil into their family.相遇,相知,相爱







        在这里我要再一次感谢CLM让我遇到我的老公Neil. Thanks a lot.         

All is peaceful now, but next come the mixed Chinese babies.

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