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Success Stories
         
Of course, like all serious dating sites we have our success stories, and here are some of them. These Western men came to CLM to seek, find, meet, befriend, chat with, and love a beautiful Chinese women, and succeeded. So can you.
Pourquoipasamour & Mercury0202 are Thankful For Each Other

This is the official Chinese Marriage photo taken for the couple's Government issued marriage book, which acts as their China Marriage Certificate.

Angela and I would like to strongly express our deepest gratitude, which will be eternal, to CLM, John Abbott and his wife, the owners, and all the professional and kind hard working staff of the site.

There were times when I felt that to find a special person in an Asian or Chinese dating site would be nearly impossible, just utopia.  I was wrong, it was exactly were I found my wife, which I love more and more endlessly.  Each new day, I find a new quality in my Angela, I feel so blessed that I have found her.

Things do not always happen the way we plan.  The Lord’s agenda is not necessarily our agenda and His always prevails.  I originally had planned to stay in China for just two months and return to Canada to start Angela’s immigration process.  I felt 2 months would be enough for us to get married and have a honeymoon, we were hoping to spend some time in Hainan and take our marriage pictures there.  We were going to buy a package from a company specialized in these pictures.

This is the traditional look of a Chinese couple.Angela’s family is small and scattered all over China.  Her brother now is working in the border of China and Russia.  Her mother is in Beijing, so are her uncles and aunties.  Her grandparents and great grandparents live far too.  Most of her close friends live up North.  Even to make a small wedding for 30 to 50 people it would be a logistical challenge.

We decided to have just a simple ceremony in the City Hall at her city.  We did not want to live together without being officially married. For respect to my wife, I wanted to shelter her from gossips or this kind of thing.  The picture with the red background is the picture which appears on our marriage certificate. My feelings were right, Angela got pregnant, but nobody could say nothing, we were married.  I know how people in small cities all over the world think.

Angela and the baby’s well being became my total and only focus. I ended up staying 4 months in China till the pregnancy was well established and I felt comfortable about leaving Angela with my mother in law and an auntie.  Yes, we will have a formal wedding in May/June 2014 and the baby, God willing, will be with us.  Then we will go to Hainan and take our pictures and also Manuela’s or Daniel’s (the names we chose if is a girl or a boy).  When we travel together to Canada, we will marry again in my church, so our community can celebrate and share our joy with us.

I truly wish to each and every person in this community, the very best.  May you find your special partner too.  Persevere, don’t give up at the first difficulty, no night lasts forever, pursue your dreams tenaciously.  Always remember that the real good things in life do not come easy, it takes time, effort, determination, will power, sometimes even endurance.  Put your emotions to work, say and show to your loved one that you really care about him or her.  Never take things for granted.

May God bless you all,

This Chinese bride has made her western man's dreams come true.非常感CLM网站,在这里我认识了我的先生, 时也非常非常感谢我的英语老师Paul,是他告诉我有这样一个网站存在。

我想我是少数幸运儿中最幸运的一个,因为我在CLM网站注册仅仅一个多月就遇到了我先生,他是一个非常执着真诚的追求者。一开始我也有过怀疑和困惑,甚至一度拒绝他,但他坚持不懈的精神和他邮件中流露的真挚和坚定深深地打动了我。之前也有过其他追求者,但总觉得他们踌躇不定,我只是其中的一个候选者,当然不排除是工作繁忙等原因。我先生让我觉得我是他唯一追求的对象,很快我也删除了我的CLM账号,专心地和他开始了长达一年多的视频恋爱。我们每天视频2-3时,周末有时甚至通话8时,总有说不完的话。期间曾多次筹划他来中国或是我去加拿大,但都因种种原因未能如愿,相信基督教的他甚至认为是上帝的执意,认为他不够好,配不上我。我说不是这样的,我想是上帝在考验我们,所以我们一定要坚持。就这样我们互相鼓励,直到今年6月份,终于见面了,办理了结婚手续,并且很快有了宝宝,我们都认为这是上帝的恩赐。遗憾的是由于我早孕反应很强烈,我们还没举行婚礼,出游的次数也很有限没有太多照片可以和大家分享。

可能很多朋友没有我这样幸运,我想或许是缘分未到,或许是有些朋友工作繁忙没有足够的时间陪伴自己的伴侣,或许还因曾经受到过的伤害不能释怀去迎接新的爱情。异国恋爱不是天方夜谭,但它需要我们给对方足够的时间、包容和理解。祝愿各位早日找到自己的伴侣!

You can read more about how this beautiful Success Story unfolded by reading Pourquoipasamour's (Daniel Chermont) blogs on the subject on the CLM/ALM blogs here: 

The happy couple cannot be happier than they are in their joy of having found each other on CLM.

Best Wishes/Comments
jhcmm 7/9/2014 3:14:04 PM @jhcmm
谢谢分享!祝你们永远幸福!
lilysun268 1/1/2014 12:16:57 PM @lilysun268
congratulation and happy new year for you and your families!
Janedreamer 10/28/2013 12:42:46 PM @Janedreamer
congralulations,read ur story,ya you are very lucky.lots of ppl here but its not easy to find d right one.thanks for your story,it brought us hope.i will keep waiting here untill he comes to my life. want to give my best wishes to everyone on clm,everyone has right to love and being loved by someone.hope you and your husband will happily live ,have a smart and healthy babe.
Helenluo63 10/24/2013 1:53:23 PM @Helenluo63
Congratulations. I am very much moved by your love story. "Persevere, don’t give up at the first difficulty, no night lasts forever, pursue your dreams tenaciously. Always remember that the real good things in life do not come easy, it takes time, effort, determination, will power, sometimes even endurance. Put your emotions to work, say and show to your loved one that you really care about him or her. Never take things for granted." Your experience and encouragement will help every one here to persist in finding their true loves. Thank you two. Wish you forever hapiness.
autumn5166 10/23/2013 4:47:30 PM @autumn5166
被你们的快乐感染!祝福你们!永远幸福!
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